Should I give up on my fantasy?

Decide for yourself, which do you like more, fantasy A or fantasy B? Don't think of what others will think of you, think of what you want. And if you're worried about guys judging you based on how you look, don't be. If they don't like the real you, then screw them. And your style should be you. Your look is you. If you want your inside self to stand out, choose whichever fantasy that shows the inner you.