My boyfriend and I were broken up, and he contracted std's from a girl, and I got it when we got back togeth?

Well I broke up with my boyfriend, and he was very hurt, he had sex with a girl he had some history with, and then we talked it out. We worked things out and got back together and I had an allergic reaction to a condom, then stopped using condoms.. So I got a "uti" but it turned out to be chlamydia. I was SO MAD but found out its pretty common and easily cured and got medicine for it. Here's where the confusion is.. My boyfriend and I told that girl, so she went and got checked out. She knows she got the chlamydia from a guy she was with right before she was with my bf, but she found out she also has herpes. She could have gotten it from that guy, or a guy she was with a couple of weeks ago (a good ammount of time after she stopped seeing my boyfriend) The only symptoms she has from that are flu like (achey muscles and very tired a lot) and she has been having those symptoms since the guy from two weeks ago. My boyfriend and I are still very concerned that we got herpes from her even though we've had no symptoms of it whatsoever. We will both be checked soon, but I am just hoping somebody will tell me that it sounds like we're in the clear and chlamydia was our only std we got from her...